Being the big brother of a wild five-year old brother and an adorable three-year old sister can be hard sometimes. It's difficult not to notice them, and they constantly seek attention from anyone willing. I do admit that I have fun watching them play and listening to them run around the house, but sometimes I am SO over it! I want to play and be noticed too. I think, perhaps, that people might not know how to play with me. It's difficult to know what to do with someone who cannot walk or talk, but I want you to know that I really love to be around people. So, I'd like to talk about things I like to do and how people can play with me.
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Greet me. If you could see my face when someone walks into my house, you would see that I get very still, listen intently as they greet my brother and sister, and then wait patiently for them to come to me. Sometimes people forget to say hello. I love it when people do greet me and it makes me feel good.
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My smile says it all! |
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Music. I love music of all kinds, ever since I was a baby. I love to hear people sing to me as much as I love listening to songs on the radio. I really like new pop music the most and have been known to get pretty crazy on the dance floor. Pull up a song on your phone, I will give you my opinion!
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Here I am playing my new drums! |
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Read to me. I really enjoy books. My friends at school read to me every day, and so do my mom and dad. I like all kinds of books, and especially like to snuggle on the couch and read. You can even give me a choice of books and I will tell you which one I prefer, or just choose one yourself.
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We love books! |
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Ask me about school. If you want to see me get excited, just ask how I like school. I may not be able to answer your questions in words, but you will see how excited I am.
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Tell me about your life. I love hearing stories about anything! Tell me where you have been and where you are going. Show me pictures and videos on your phone and tell me about the people.
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Take me for a walk. I enjoy going for rides in my chair, and even like a little speed and spinning! Tell me about the things we see and stop to help me investigate something interesting.
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Play games. Even if I can't hold the cards myself, or move the game pieces, I still like to get involved in the action; all I need is someone to be my hands.It may take longer, but I would be so thankful!
Most of the time I sit, patiently waiting, listening to all of the activity going on around me. I love to be around people and I want them to love being around me. Sometimes it just takes a little creativity to know how to play with me!
Thank you for sharing this with everyone...I really appreciate you opening the eyes a bit more for parents and children who may not know other ways besides just greeting a child with special needs....because it takes someone saying something to help us to be more aware :) when you don't have a child with special needs you don't truly understand 100 percent unless you have family or friends with a child with needs...thank you
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